I am a Dog

December 20th, 2011
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Dearest Darling Friends,

A rich man Amirchand had a pet dog Rambo. He had servants who took care of it very well. However, the dog did not quite enjoy the meals provided to it.

Like any other human being, Rambo too wanted a change. One day it left the house and wandered on the street to look out for tasty food. Unfortunately every time Rambo found tasty food, other dogs would fight it off him. You see, he was unable to fight the street dogs. Disgruntled, disappointed, seething at the unfairness of the other dogs being better fighters than him, unable to accept he was not fit and fast enough, he was unlike any sad dog you would have seen in your life.

However, Rambo’s life was about to change.

On the way back home, a few meters before from Amirchand’s bungalow, just outside the garbage bin, Rambo came across a dried lifeless bone. Being in a hurry, besides being hungry for self esteem and health, Rambo bit the bone.

While chewing the bone, its gum started bleeding. Unaware of the blood being its own, Rambo liked the taste of the bloody bone. Rambo thought that the blood was coming out from the bone and started chewing it with great enthusiasm. The blood flow increased. Dizzy with the taste, numb with hunger, intoxicated with the discovery, having recovered his bruised self-esteem, Rambo became feverish with excitement. Jumping around, its teeth holding the bone steadfast, Rambo wanted to juice every drop of the blood from the bone.

A wise dog passing by, looked at Rambo, barked and said, ‘Hey stranger! The blood is coming from your gums and not from the bone; it is only a dried bone that you are chewing.’

Rambo looked at the wise dog with disdain and said, ‘Until I bit the bone, my tongue had not tasted blood! Only after biting this bone, I came to know this taste. So, the blood is coming from the bone. You cannot trick me! I am not leaving the bone for you’

Saying so, Rambo bit the bone more ferociously. The more it liked the taste of the bloody bone, the more he sucked on the bone. The more Rambo hurt himself.
This way of enjoying was Rambo’s logic. This is dog logic!

Where ever I go, nowadays the discussions hover around ‘What are your plans for new year’s eve?” Travel plans are being made, tickets are being booked, groups are being formed, places and parties are being identified, shopping is being done, elaborate plans are happening. In about ten days time, we will move on to a new year. Liquor is going to flow like crazy. For many people the idea of having fun is to get drunk with alcohol.

Think for a while! Is there any difference between the dog biting the dried-bone and us human beings gaining pleasure from cigarettes, alcohol and other abusive substances?

As you read the story about Rambo did these words cross your mind - “Poor Rambo ! “.

If I happen to meet you on New Year’s eve, looking at you will the same words cross my heart – “Poor _________”.

I pray not.

Take care. Have fun. Please avoid having fun while chewing the bloody dried bone. You deserve a better life! Your family and friends deserve a better you.

For those of us who are not into alcohol and other abusive substances, it will be worthwhile to think what is our bloody dried bone. Is it ego? Is it money? Is it our possessions? Maybe it is our looks? Maybe our degrees and qualifications? Whatever it may be, lets drop it as we march into 2012. Lets stop enjoying the taste of our own destruction and blood. May 2012 be the best ever year of YOUR life.

With loads of love, prayers and best wishes,

naren

As I Live…I Learn

  • Itsawonderfullife

    dear darling naren,

    wow…………article………..

    love u so much,

    enjoy new year time………….

  • Deepak Parakh

    Very Impactful artcile,
    I need to observe and understand my weakness,if i dont accpet,I am fooling myself.

  • Manoj Hirani

    Wow !! Awesome . . .
    I realise there are so many dry bones in life..making we bleed and waste myself..
    Having realised that, i will not chew these bones…
    Will not give anyone an opportunity to tell me “poor dog” !

  • prashant

    It’s superb..
    Thanx for provoking the brain to think on this..
    Dry bone…!! what an ideal example !! the representative…

    Thanx a lot..

  • Sushi Devi

    Hello sir,
    Apt and thought provoking new year message.

    Thank you!
    Sushi Devi

  • Madhavi

    Hi !

    Thanks for such Good message .

    Regards,
    Madhavi

  • Monica Sawant

    Hi

    Thanks for the wonderful article!

    It is a great learning!

    Regards,
    Monica Sawant

  • Ravindra Joshi

    Thank you very much!

  • Hetal

    darling naren,

    its a wow article…

    wish u very happy new year eve..

    thank u so much ….

    hetal…………

  • Vijaya Patil

    I must say u have unique way of sending msg.
    its really vry nice.
    we learn a lot from ur mails.

    Thank u.
    Vijaya Patil

  • Vishal Doshi

    hey Nice One buddy

  • Suman bohra

    Beautiful. Transforming… Left me speechless, stirred.

    Loads of love.

    Suman

  • http://www.facebook.com/mouneet Mouneet Mehta

    What an article!!!! Thanks Naren.. Since a long time, I wanted you to write something about addiction.. and here it comes. What a way to explain the bad habits / behaviour of people and what a realization to overcome those.. Just compare oneself with a “Poor Dog!”. It all sets right.

    Thanks for this wonderful article at just the right time.. when people are going to be celebrating new year with a lot of resolutions.. This article is sure going to boost some thought provoking decisions in people!! Love you so much.

  • Sanjaysomanipune

    nice message …………

  • Rajesh Doshi

    YES NAREN I WILL DO IT

    THKS

    Rajesh

  • Madhavi Sonar

    Hi !

    Thanks for such Good message .

    Regards,
    Madhavi

  • Chandru Mohinani

    Hi Naren,

    I thank you for the Very vital Suggestion And Most important it is the Need of The time , the Way the generation is getting Swayed is very dangerous, and above all the accessibility to modern gizmos
    they are affecting the Culture & character of them .
    I thank you very much for sending your blessings , Please keep sending the Same you know i require them .
    I bow down to you and seek your blessings.

    Regards
    Chandru

  • Sharon

    Thanks Amit! I think this story also applies to addiction to our worries–chewing on coulda, woulda, shouldas of the past and attachments to the future–or maybe that’s just where I am in my journey ?!? Love and light to you and yours for a wonderful and healthy new year!!

    warmest regards,
    Sharon
    (response from lsm reader referred by Amit Almal)

  • Shabana Lasi

    Hi Azim
    Really enjoyed reading this message thanks for sharing.

  • Sabina Samtani

    Thanks Bansi for sending such a beautiful mail :) Merry Christmas and Happy New Year

    Sabina Samtani
    (response from lsm reader referred by Bansi Mehta)

  • Dr Ashish

    Love you Naren,

    I believe ,This LSM will help so many of them to change their track
    for 31st dec, I am very lucky as I and my family will be attending a
    life transforming 31st dec night party with all the lifeschoolers and
    their family which will be full of masti , dance , singing, fashion
    show, magic etc, I am just waiting for it,
    I promise you that there will be a drastic change in me in the coming
    year 2012 , I will put all the efforts to improve in the areas where I
    need to improve. I will make myself strong in the areas where I am
    weak “one at a time”
    Thank once again for this meaningful LSM at the right time.

    With Love and Gratitude,
    Dr. Ashish.

  • Poonam Bharti

    Nice message
    In gratitude and love for the new year

    Poonam Bharti

  • Sheetal

    Naren,

    Very nice explanation of “NEW YEAR PARTY “, Very True in today’s world !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    HAPPY NEW YEAR !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    ….sheetal sk

  • Vidya Watve

    Thanks a lot for such a nice lesson!!

    Vidya

  • Kamalaksha Das

    Good one. Happy New Year to you and the entire crew!

  • Anjoy

    Life changing, Mind blowing article

  • Purushottam

    Dearest Naren
    I don’t want to be dog as you wrote in your LSM. I am happy that I am not one. I have identified pleasure and happiness.
    New year is another mile stone in my life, only to ponder and ask myslef “What Next?” I want to ask this question to myself to all facets of my life. That includes, profession, relationship , materialistic things and spiritual sphere.
    Thanks to Lord for giving you in my life. Thanks for all life wisdom you gave me.
    I am out of pune to attend a marriage and visit Balaji. Happy New year to you, Bharati, Niraj and Mehak.

    Love you
    Purushottam
    (Response from lsm readers)

  • Prasanna Poduval

    Really good. Will definitely forward to all friends.

    Thanks & Regards,
    Prasanna Poduval
    (Email feedback received from LSM reader Prasanna referred by Nitin Agarwal. )

  • Vishnu Vardhanan

    Thanks a lot, Nice one

    Vishnu Vardhanan

  • Max Babi

    Thank you Naren, thank you Aarti.
    Mighty sensible message – most welcome.

    Warmest

    Max Babi
    (Email feedback received from LSM reader Max Babi referred by Aarti Irani.)

  • Abhinay Singh

    whoever this is this was a great message for all….
    Thanks & regards

    Abhinay Singh
    (Email feedback received from LSM reader Abhinay)

  • Lsm Reader

    Its the first article i am reading … How inspiring !!!
    Kudos Naren Bhaiya !!!

    Yogita Sarada
    (feedback received from Life School Facebook page )

  • Dr. Dilip Sarda

    Dear Raj,
    Excellent one. Thx.

    DR. DILIP SARDA.
    [M.B.B.S, D.C.H]
    (Email feedback received from LSM reader Dr Dilip referred by Raj Muchhal – Lion)

  • Anand Ambekar

    Really Introspecting! But still People will do what they like!:)

    - Anand
    (Feedback received by email from LSM Reader Anand referred by Raj Muchhal)

    • http://www.lifeschool.co.in Narendra Goidani

      Dearest Anand,

      We are just doing our bit. We should, right? While everyone may not be ‘ready’ to accept, change and transform…there are already a few people who have personally informed about ‘giving up’ dry bone licking. You will be glad to know, this LSM has garnered the maximum response ever for all the LSMs (more than 135) from the readers. Looks like this will also break the record for the maximum ‘views’ too.

      Thanks for your mail…Thanks for your concern. It is always great to read from our genuine readers.

      With lots of love and best wishes,
      - Naren

  • Deepak Phadnis

    Dear Naren.

    Good.

    With loads of love, prayers and best wishes,
    Regards.

    Deepak G Phadnis
    COHR – Training
    Praj Industries Ltd.

    (Email Feedback received by LSM Reader Deepak Phadnis referred by Trax – Tejwaney Brothers)

  • Flyingmamoth

    wooow…..it was really thought provoking story……thank you a lot

  • Kalpesh

    dear sir,

    Its a very realistic story .
    thank you very much sir,
    happy new year to you also

    Kalpesh
    (Email feedback received from LSM reader Kalpesh)

  • Amit Chitravkar

    Dear Hitesh,

    Thanks

    Regards,
    Amit Chitravkar
    (Email feedback received from LSM reader Amit referred by Hitesh Oswal)

  • Sharad Bhagwat

    Dear uday,liked the story and its principle.noted.wish you all a very happy new year.

    Regards,

    S. B. Bhagwat
    (Email Feedback received by LSM Reader S. B. Bhagwat referred by Uday Gujar)

  • Rohit Pathak2012

    Dear Naren
    A mind Blowing artical I have read in my life, which will help many to think once again how they
    leave in life accept the life, and how harmful it to our family. I really thank from the deapth of
    my Heart for wonderful thoughts at an appropate time that is more important
    Thanks a lot

  • Vimal

    Discovering the Dried bone now! Thanks and heavenly wishes for new year. Rit’s Arnav’s rich dad.

  • Vidyadhar Argade

    “Thanks for conveying a very difficult message with a very simple example.”

    Vidyadhar Argade
    (Email Feedback received by LSM Reader Vidyadhar Argade referred by Uday Gujar)

  • Shanti

    Real good one indeed! Yes we have only one life and we must make the best of it in all sense.

    Wishing you Prosperous and a very fruitful New Year.

    Regards,
    Shanti
    (Email Feedback received by LSM Reader Shanti referred by Sujay Fire & Safty Equipments)

  • Vinod Kataria

    Excellent.

    Regards
    Vinod Kataria
    (Email feedback received from LSM reader Vinod Kataria referred by Shastri Group)

  • Vitthal Dehadray

    Liked it.

    Thanks
    CA Vitthal Dehadray
    (Email feedback received from LSM reader Vitthal Dehadray referred by K L Bansal)

  • Deepak Gude

    good one

    Deepak Gude
    (Email feedback received from LSM reader Deepak Gude referred by K L Bansal)

  • Himali Shah

    Very nice msg

    Himali Shah
    (Email feedback received from LSM reader Himali Shah)

  • Pralhadrathi

    the awareness rises only with least addictions of any kind.this is my experience.kudos to such a wonderful article.there is much more to life than chewing useless bones.happy 2012.regards pralhad rathi

  • Laxmikant Karwa

    Sir, Its great.

    Thanks
    Laxmikant Karwa,
    Latur
    (Email feedback received from LSM reader Laxmikant Karwa referred by Pooja Marketing)

  • Madhuri Prabhulkar

    Dear Naren,

    Wonderful message! An eye opener….

    Thanks

    Regards,
    Madhuri

  • Madan

    Dear

    The mail you send me is very useful

    R.MADAN

  • Bhavana

    i heard about your session and the way you are transforming people’s life , this is wonderful article and a new lesson for a life time ,thanks..

  • Samira

    A complete eye opening lesson for me. Instead of ruining the life by self pity, I will find out the way out and live Life to the Fullest ..
    Thank you So Much..
    Helped Change the way I Think..