Sitting Next to Dr Kiran Bedi

May 15th, 2012
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kiran bediDearest Darling Friends,

Imagine you are sitting next to Dr Kiran Bedi.

Imagine, what you will now imagine?

If you had her permission, space and time to ask her one question,
imagine what you would ask? Imagine her looking at you with eyes of appreciation for your insightful question. Imagine what will be her answer.

Imagine she asked you a question. Your answer made her recognize the solid stuff inside you.

Imagine these questions led to a great conversation.

Its a fact that great conversations lead to great ideas. It can lead to great memories. It can turn lives around.

I was sitting next to Dr Kiran Bedi awaiting my turn to speak from the dais of TEDxSinhagad. She heard my speech on a movement Life School has founded, called ‘Keep Moving Movement’ (KMM – details available on our website). She asked me a gentle question that shook me rigorously. In a voice that was unexpectedly soft yet powerful she expressed, ‘This is such an original idea. You must take it national. Why are you NOT doing it?’

Sometimes the space in between the conversations are so momentous. In that space, silence speaks. Hazy things become clear. The hidden becomes obvious. Peace reigns. Power is felt. Life is the same. Yet, nothing remains the same. Ever.

What was a local activity (KMM) is becoming national this year. What used to cover 5000 children will cover 3 lakhs children this year. What was conducted in 100 classes will be conducted in 1000 plus classes this year. What got done only in Pune, will be done at least in three cities. And we in Life School believe, this is just a beginning. (If you want KMM to travel to your city, please send us a mail. We will work something out).

One conversation turned KMM around.

When you have a face to face conversation with the highly energetic and insightful Dr Kiran Bedi, or you sit quietly next to enigmatic Baba Amte or the mercurial Deepak Parekh or magical maestro Pandit Jasraj or the incredibly spirited Lance Armstrong, your life gets raised. The way you look at life gets changed. The way you look at yourself changes.

This is NOT because we have been imparted some mystical piece of heavily guarded rare secret.

This is because we realize that we have no choice. While those great people have many options in people like you and me, we do not have too many options of meeting great people. If we want to continue to be with those who are in a hurry to make an impact, we need to lift our game.

Ironically, most of us waste such colossus amount of our priceless time with those who lower the bar, who are perfectly ok with mediocrity within themselves and others.

Do you realise we do our best only when the bar is raised, when great work is expected. Now come on…Raise the bar. For yourself and for others. You will lose some. You will create some. You will help many in discovering themselves. You will discover yourself.

Have some fantastic conversations. Help others in having fantastic conversations. Its going to be worthwhile to give this idea a shot.

‘May one day soon, people long to breathe the same air that you breathe, share the same space that you occupy, use the same things that you use, live the way you live. I believe, you have it in you. May you reach this stage by raising the bar.’ I trust you can. I believe you can. By the way, have you realised, it is difficult to disappoint people who TRUST in us, who BELIEVE in us.

This LSM was a conversation you and me had. Did it do something to you? We would love to get your feedbacks…

With loads of love, prayers and best wishes,
Narendra Goidani
As I Live…I Learn

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  • Jyoti Gosavi

    I am privileged to be a part of KMM. I pray it crosses unlimited milestones and touches millions of lives. All the best. Today’s conversation with LSM has left me refined and added to the conviction of asking powerful questions. As for me I will ensure my conversations are fantastic.

    prayers and best wishes
    jo

  • Parikhshah412

    Dear Sir,
    Thanks for the Article.In my comment of an earlier LSM ,I have mentioned that I have found a person who has changed the course of my life.Again I am remembered of the occasion of my first meeting with him.I experienced his power by his sheer silence.I found myself really pitiable against his invisible power.And that power has lifted me today to a level which gives me immense peace of mind,a process of my improvement and also purifying my soul and giving me self realization.Yes, as you rightly mentioned,he has many options ,but I have little(oh no,Not Any) option.I can not afford to loose him.The article like this continues to remind us this fact.Thanks for the same.Wish your movement a great success from the bottom of my heart.

    Shailesh Parikh

  • Deepak

    Its a privelege to be a part of KMM,we never know what impact we can create in life’s of children who are the future…..I can proudly say I am a product of KMM

  • Dr. Ravindra Bobade

    DEAR FRIEND,

    VERY GOOD EVENING. THANKS TO YOU & YOUR TEAM WITH GOD FOR GREAT WORK DOING.
    I AM VERY MUCH INSPIRED BY READING YOUR ARTICLS.
    WHAT WILL BE DONE FOR CHILDRENS OF RURAL PEOPLE.
    AGAIN THANKS.

    YOUR’S,
    DR.RAVINDRA RAGHU BOBADE

  • Shubhada

    Love you Naren,
    Thanks a lot to you for writing such a inspiring LSM. every week. By raising the bar helps me to ask great questions. Great work of KMM. Firstly, I would like sitting next to Naren to ask great question,who inspires me a lot as my teacher. Thanks!

    Waiting for next weeks amazing article.

    With Love,
    Shubhada

  • Naresh Bhojwani

    Thank you so much for your articles, i get these articles every Tuesday, your articles touch my heart every time! they are always with double treatment – they teach me a lesson and give me a reason to smile!!!

    looking forward to receive them continuously!

    Thank You
    Best Regards
    Naresh Bhojwani

  • Manish Hemrajani

    It was a beautiful conversation.

    Lifting the bar is a good thought… a unique idea…

    Somewhere in the mail U have mentioned…. “We have no choice”… This statement works well in our day to day life…… not pertaining to your topic…

    A great person has said : Choice itself is a problem.

    When we have a choice, we usually fall in a delima and get cofused. When a straight instruction is given, without any choice, following that, will reduce confusion and frustration in people.
    For eg. If U know that U have to love Your Wife…. You have no option, and U love her to the fullest…. But if you give a choice to yourself, that will create problems…. :-)

    Not many people can decide fast what is to be done in a particular given situation. I call this attitude as a Military Attitude….

    Once an order is given, the task has to be completed without any excuse…. This improves execution of work and self confidence..

    Manish R. Hemrajani

  • Hetal

    Dearest naren,

    great article…..

    yes i realize that i disappoint people who has trust in me and believe in me.

    but frankly speaking now a days i realize that i am disappoint to my self then others ,that i can do much more then what i am doing right now…

    no i will not disappoint my self any more, ” I TRUST AND BELIEVE IN MY SELF”

    i will never give upon my dreams,yes i have fire in my belly…..

    from each lsm i am growing so much….

    again thanks for everything…

    love u loads…

    hetal(always learning and implementing)…:-):-):-)…

  • Purushottam

    Sitting Next to Kiran Bedi was an awakening! Such people always radiate some vibes which shake ones soul.It is like you sitting next to a sandlewood powder. It is bound to dust and give the fragrance from the person in vicinity.Taking KMM to national level is a great and achievable idea. I am sure Naren will do it!! Seed planted in soil exposed to sunshine will grow in to a plant and later a tree. Hight is not an issue.. Naren has come out of shade. He will grow taller and taller. Sky is the only limit.

    Love you Naren.
    Purushottam

    • Shubhada Deodhar

      Hi Purushottam,

      Shubhada here, I liked your comment so much. It inspires me a lot.
      Thank you!

      Shubhada

  • Ranjna Sharma

    Dear sir.i am so thankful you for sending me such lovely e-mails.i have learnt so much things from it.In life we have so much oppurtiunites.we don’t miss it.

  • Devendra

    Dear Naren,

    I liked the below article which is very practical and yes its true also, called as SANGATI KA ASAR HOTA HAI,its all depands on the engery around us.

    Thankx and regards

    Devendra

  • Harmony

    Dear Narenji

    Good Day !

    As usual, your messages are very simple but really beautiful.
    I even keep on sharing this with our friends.

    Thanks a lot,

    Keep encouraging us,

    Yours Humbly,
    Ved

  • Manoj Hirani

    Love You Naren !
    KMM will set benchmarks !
    KMM will redefine Motivation, Guidance and Love !
    KMM comes with a great purpose, precise planning and zero defect execution !
    Allways praying for you and all your phenomenal endevours !
    You take so many of us further…further than many had ever dreamt of going !
    ” KEEP MOVING” !

  • Dr Ashish

    Love you Naren,

    Yes it is very true, wow what a remarkable article, after reading this article i dont think that there will be a single person who will not raise their bar, i have personally edited a few of them from my life as it was very necessary or else they would had lowered my bar.
    Yes i was a witness that day when Dr Kiran Bedi mentioned 3 times that she is inspired by Mr Naren and that moment i felt very proud of myself to be associated with Naren, lifeschool and KMM. yes i agree to what purshottam says, Naren will grow taller and taller and sky is the only limit. Just looking forward to be a part of KMM to make a difference.

    With Love & Gratitude,
    Dr Ashish.

  • Sonika

    Thank you for encouraging me to raise the bar and create incredible value. Inspired by this blessing:

    ‘May one day soon, people long to breathe the same air that you breathe, share the same space that you occupy, use the same things that you use, live the way you live. I believe, you have it in you. May you reach this stage by raising the bar.’ I trust you can. I believe you can. By the way, have you realised, it is difficult to disappoint people who TRUST in us, who BELIEVE in us.

    Regards,
    Sonika
    (Feedback received from reader on Trainer’s Forum)

  • Sunrisetravelindia

    Luv u!!! Thank you for always being an inspiration in my life.

    U used to say, when great people like Swami Vivekananda, Gandhiji & Dr. Babasaheb Ambedkar sit under a tree, such places simply become places of positive vibrations & energy.They become places of worship.Modern greats like Amitabh Bachan, Sachin Tendulkar & Anna Hazare also bring a similar kind of energy & positive vibrations in us.

    When u came to my office yesterday, the few moments that I invested with u were really energising & inspiring.The learnings that I had from the conversation with u on how to raise my standards of becoming a better businessman was great.The result—- It has really made me think differently & positively. Yes conversations definitely raise one’s performance.

    Ganhiji’s conversation with the British which lead to him being thrown out of the train, brought about a revolution in India. The result ——We are living in a free & developed country. Yes conversations definitely raise one’s performance.The conversation that Dronacharya had with Arjuna made Arjuna the greatest warrior ever.The result– we have seen a lot of warriors take Arjuna as their idol. Yes conversations definitely raise one’s performance. The conversation that Saurav Ganguly had with Virendra Sehwag in promoting him as an opener brought about a big transformation on how the game of cricket should be played. The result—-the game of cricket has seen so many exciting batsmen trash the best of bowlers by getting inspired by the batsmanship of Sehwag. Yes conversations definitely raise one’s performance which in turn become a blessing to the society.

    The conversations that I have always had with my parents have indeed made me a good human being. The healthy conversations that I always have had with my kids have made our father-son-daughter relationship a wonderful relationship.The didactic conversations that I have with my guide & loving friend Arun have made me a better performer in my business & a more caring person to whomsoever I meet. My secret conversation with God in the form of prayers & offering gratitude to him, has made me enjoy different kinds of people & situations in my life. And the list of my conversations goes on & on……. Yes conversations definitely have made me raise my performance.

    Luving you like I have always been,

    Hiren